Modern “compassion” often excuses what God forbids. Divorce doesn’t relieve pain—it multiplies it. This book calls the Church to holiness, not loopholes. If you’re hurting, we point you to Christ, the only One who can heal, reconcile, and keep covenant.
What’s inside
Part I — The Message
Why God hates divorce, the lies we believe, the wreckage it leaves, and the call to repent and return. Clear treatment of Matthew’s “exception” texts in Jewish betrothal context, harmonized with Mark, Luke, and Paul.
Part II — The Workbook
15 chapters of probing questions, action steps, prayer prompts, and “Closing Pleas”—built for couples and small groups seeking the Lord together.
Built for Ministry
Use at home or in church. Free facilitator Answer Key available for pastors, lay leaders, and group guides.
FAQ
Does the book address Matthew’s “except for fornication” passages?
Yes. Matthew’s Gospel (to a Jewish audience) uses porneia in a way that fits betrothal/unlawful unions, which were distinct from a consummated marriage. The book harmonizes all four passages (Matt. 5/19, Mark 10, Luke 16) and Paul’s commands (1 Cor. 7) to show that lifelong covenant remains the standard and remarriage while a spouse lives is called adultery by Jesus.
Is this harsh toward those who are suffering?
No. Real sin and real danger must be confronted, including lawful separation and church discipline where safety demands it. But we refuse to turn suffering into a permission slip for disobedience. The narrow path is mercy and truth—together.
Is there group support material?
Yes—download the free Facilitator Answer Key with scripture chains, coaching notes, and prompts: get the Answer Key.
About the Author
Joe Soares lives in Florida with his wife Kimberly. Together they model faithfulness in life and ministry at MarriageHotline911.com, calling couples back to covenant love in Christ.